Good question asked.
Which triggered me to think.
If I have a next boyfriend, will I be treating him as a sub for my ex?
And, what does it mean by getting over?
I came across a quote on Facebook some time ago.
And it says, "You know you got over when you can recount without feeling pain."
Somewhere along those lines ^ .
For me now.
I don't think it hurts.
At least not that much as people will expect from me.
It's not that I never loved him.
Or didn't loved him that much.
I loved the both of them.
With my heart, with my soul.
But it's clearer, more than ever than I can survive without them.
Happily.
Thinking logically, humans' basic need to survive =
Air (oxygen), water, food.
For me, I ask for a little more.
My family.
So as long as I get air, food, and water, together with my family.
I think I am fine with taking this world on.
:) .
So, nope, I won't be taking anyone as a substitute for anyone.
I am not gonna do that to make myself happy, because I am happy.
I am definitely not gonna do that because I know.
That Eddie Chua, and Jason Lee are both fragments of my past.
A past that I will keep inside my mind, the beautiful and sad memories.
Relationships that I have slowly learnt to let go.
I don't know how much I got over.
But at least I know, I am genuinely happy.
^_^ .
I am a hyper girl tonight.
LOLZ, thanks to Cultizers <3 .
And Gin Shifu.