When I was younger and I came across passages on things like "Facts about girls", "What boys should do in a relationship", etcetc, I used to nod my head in agreement, to every single "rule" stated in the "guidelines".
But as I grow up, and I come across the same thing again, I begin to realize that sometimes these "guidelines" are too much to ask for.
Not every guy will be that thoughtful, or good with doing romantic stuff.
But it doesn't mean they love their girlfriends any lesser.
So I've learnt, to cherish the special guy in my life as long as I know he's true in his love for me :D .